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Cliché Month: When the Cat’s Away, the Mice Will Play 🐈‍⬛🐁

We Love Our Black “Galaxy” Kitty

In honor of National Black Cat Appreciation Day, I couldn’t help but think about how our sleek, shadowed feline companions get a bad reputation—mostly as symbols of superstition. But if you’ve ever known a black cat, especially a tuxedo cat, you know how not-scary they actually are.

Currently, we have a black feral who won’t come in the house, won’t sit on our laps, and gets a bit haughty if she sees us feed another neighborhood cat, but she lives here most of the time. We call her Galaxy because of the white cluster of fur on her chest, sort of like a spinning space galaxy. She likes to be scritched, and sometimes, she will even jump up on the front porch glider and sit close (but not too close) while “making biscuits” in the air. We feel a strong victory when we get her to enjoy our company like that.

But When The Cat’s Away…

The core sentiment of this cliché originated in medieval Latin: “Dum felis dormit, mus gaudet et exsilit antro” (“When the cat sleeps, the mouse leaves its hole, rejoicing”). By the early 14th century, the French had framed it as “Ou chat na rat regne” (“Where there is no cat, the rat is king”), emphasizing the immediate shift in control. In 1599, William Shakespeare referenced the concept in Henry V, pointing out that an unguarded territory invites chaos by “playing the mouse in absence of the cat.”

The common denominator is, of course, that the mouse is very happy to have the house (or castle) all to itself. And after our last indoor cat left to cross the rainbow bridge in January of 2023, we experienced exactly what happens when you have no cats and a closed storage room with a window. (Actually, we still don’t know where they got in.)

After that experience, I’ve thought very strongly about getting another indoor cat to dissuade any new critters from moving in during the cold winter, but thankfully, we haven’t seen evidence of them for awhile.

What Kinds of People Play Cat and Mouse Games?

Real character isn’t proven when authority is standing in the room taking notes; it’s proven in the unchecked moments when nobody is looking over our shoulder. What we are on the inside will eventually come out in our words and our behaviors. Scripture says…

Luke 6:45 BSB
[45] The good man brings good things out of the good treasure of his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil treasure of his heart. For out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks.

https://bible.com/bible/3034/luk.6.45.BSB

Mice may be small, but they make big choices to invade, chew, nest, and poop (yuck) when they think they can get away with it. Some people also make big choices in the abundance of little things they do without caring how they affect the big picture. I think it’s actually that big-picture care that speaks most about the integrity of a person.

I found so many quotes about integrity and character, that I could never share them all with you. But here are a few I like:

“Character is built by thousands of small choices.”

“Reputation is what men and women think of us; character is what God and angels know of us.”  — Thomas Paine

“Our character is what we do when we think no one is looking.” — H. Jackson Brown Jr.

The Apostle Paul spoke of character to the Ephesian slaves (working class) in how they should obey their bosses…

Ephesians 6:6-7 BSB
[6] And do this not only to please them while they are watching, but as servants of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart. 
[7] Serve with good will, as to the Lord and not to men,

https://bible.com/bible/3034/eph.6.6-7.BSB

But God Even Loves the Mice

My annual Bible study has had me in the books of Ezra and Nehemiah this week, and I’ve been amazed at the progression of the people as they learn about God’s law and about His grace. They’ve been in bondage due to sin and ignorance, so someone finds the Torah and begins reading it to the people. Many are moved to begin obeying it. This is followed by testimony of all the ways the people have abandoned The Lord and how, when things went bad, they would come back to Him. And what did He do? Over and over again, He forgave them and provided ways for them to come back into His holy presence.

There were some that just refused to be changed, whether by the law or by grace, and they made the prophet so angry that he beat them. But that’s an effect a person with no integrity can have on a person with integrity. They can push your buttons until you feel like pulling your hair out, or doing like the prophet and pulling out their hair. And when their lack of caring causes them to reject The Almighty, it feels even worse.

In case you want to see what The Bible Project says about these 2 Bible books, here’s their message on that subject:

But the goal of personal and spiritual growth is self-governance: deciding for and in ourselves that we WANT to do the right thing simply because it IS the right thing. We move beyond the fear of whether the “cat” is home or away, and we treat every moment as if we want to make the “cat” happy and proud. And we grasp the reality that God knows our (mouse) form and yet He still loves and forgives us. Now that’s a reason to get excited that we have freedom and time to play.

Psalm 103:14 BSB
[14] For He knows our frame; He is mindful that we are dust.

https://bible.com/bible/3034/psa.103.14.BSB

I’ll wrap up with these encouraging words from Hebrews…

Hebrews 4:14-16 BSB
[14] Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to what we profess. [15] For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who was tempted in every way that we are, yet was without sin. [16] Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.

https://bible.com/bible/3034/heb.4.14-16.BSB

August 17, 2026 Posted by Crystal A Murray (aka CrystalWriter) | AI, AI Image Creations, Bible, Bible Scripture Verses, Christianity, Clichés, Platitudes & Life Lessons, Creativity, Gemini (by Google), Grace and Mercy (In Scripture and In Life), Nonfiction, Photo Studio Pro app, Slice of Life, Text on Image, The Bible Project, Walking With The Lord | Bible, cat and mouse, character, cliche, Ezra and Nehemiah, Grace and Mercy, honesty, integrity, National Black Cat Appreciation Day, Pet Stories, The Bible Project, when the cat's away the mice will play | Leave a comment