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🎵Prompt Response: Happiness vs Joy

What’s a common misconception people have about happiness?

There are many common misconceptions about happiness, but I think the biggest one is that it means the same thing as joy.

Happiness is an emotion. It is something we can choose to receive or to reject. It fully belongs to us to do with as we wish. And because human emotions are not always steady, it means that happiness will ebb and flow like an ocean tide. It’s mostly based on our current experiences, but for those who are good at making lemonade from life’s lemons, it can show up despite sour events in life.

I’m not saying that happiness is not a gift, though; it is a wonderful gift that often fills us up with what we need to sustain us in unhappy times. But it’s not joy. That is something that comes from only one source—God Himself. Because joy is a fruit of The Holy Spirit, it means it belongs to Yahveh, and it’s in His control. And just like The Lord is the same yesterday, today, and forever; joy is always the same and not dependent on circumstances.

See, we really need both of these in this life. We don’t deserve happiness (that’s another message all together), but we need it for balance. It will give us strength and hope to keep us looking for that next happy day and help us to not be so willing to give up because we know what we’d miss.

Sometimes, though, it’s really not easy to feel happiness. Even those with 24/7 lemonade stands sometimes struggle to be happy in the face of hard events or times. If they are followers of YahShua, though, this is where they can lean into joy. Because His Spirit is inside them to sustain them at all times, they can tap into that deep joy (along with the other fruit like love, peace, mercy, etc.) and make it through the hard times with strength to carry them to the next moment of happiness. They can trade temporary smiles of happiness for permanent hearts filled with God’s joy.

Nehemiah 8:10 BSB
[10] Then Nehemiah told them, “Go and eat what is rich, drink what is sweet, and send out portions to those who have nothing prepared, since today is holy to our Lord. Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.”

https://bible.com/bible/3034/neh.8.10.BSB

Now, for a moment of happiness, look at these adorable pictures from Wombo using the knitting filter.

And when you get the joy, joy, joy down in your heart, you’ll find that the joy of The Lord is your strength.

And while I thought I was almost done with this post, I have to append this note: I was looking for the old Sunday School chorus about the joy of The Lord when I came across the song above. I liked it right away, but before sharing it here, I wanted to research the spiritual foundations of the band. It turns out, they wrote this song specifically for a time of grief in the band when they needed the joy of The Lord to comfort them in unhappy times. (Shout out to Gemini for this important historical note.) That makes me feel like finding this song after everything I wrote before I even looked for it is not just happenstance or coincidence.

And here’s the one I was originally going to share.

June 18, 2026 - Posted by Crystal A Murray (aka CrystalWriter) | AI, AI Image Creations, Bible, by Day One, Christianity, Collaged, Nonfiction, Photo Studio Pro app, Prompts, Walking With The Lord, Wombo Dream, Word Nerd with a Bible | Bible, dailyprompt, dailyprompt-2797, Fruit of The Spirit, happiness, Joy, joy of The Lord, strength